So, you and your partner broke up, and you want her back to date you again. But, what will you do to get your ex back? Before doing further steps to bring her back to you, you should carefully analyze first why you need her back. Do you really love that person and really enjoy dating her or you just feel strange because you are single again? You have to make sure that it is love that you feel, or you’ll regret in the end. Some say that getting your ex back is more difficult than wooing a girl for the first time. But, you can actually win him/her again with these 5 simple steps.
1. Communicate with her again. Give her a call and ask how she is doing. A simple message of “How are you doing these days?” shows that you are still concerned about her. However, do not expect that she will reply to you immediately. The pain is still there, and she may find it difficult to see you. If you do not receive a response from her, wait patiently. She may still need time for herself. Just leave a message to let her know that you still want to meet her.
2. Show her how you missed her. When she contacted you after getting your message, let her know that you are very happy and thankful that she contacted you again. Let her know that you miss her and it feels so strange without her around you. Try to observe her and know if she still loves you.
3. Open up a conversation and tell her that you want her back and you want to date her again. You need not to do this on your first meeting again. You can do this after you have established a stable communication or as soon as you have gathered your courage. Do not expect that you will win her heart immediately. She needs time as well to think if she wants to get back to you. Just give her enough time and do not put too much on her.
4. Show how you love her and how you care for her. Be the man that she had fallen in love before and woo her again. Do your own simple ways of letting her know that you still love her such as walking her home, making her feel that she is protected, giving her calls and messages to ask her how was her day, giving her encouragements during difficult times, and always being there for her. Giving her flowers and presents is another way of showing your love to her. Woo her until you win her heart again.
5. Finally, do not repeat the same mistake. Carefully analyze why you two broke up before. Was it because you were flirting with other ladies and she does not like it? Or, was it because you did not trust her when she did something without consulting you? You have to know the reason why you broke up so that you will able to avoid the same mistake. Never repeat the same mistake because she might broke up with you again, and never get back to date you for the third time.
